
What
will my child get out of Greek life that they would not
get out of any other college organization?
Coming
to college is one of the major life changes that your son/daughter
will go through. Joining a fraternity or sorority will help
make the transition easier. The fraternity or sorority experience
is multifaceted and offers numerous opportunities to your
student. Developing life-long friendships with the members
in their chapter and other YSU chapters helps make the campus
seem smaller. For many members, these chapters become a
home away from home. In addition to the brother/sisterhood,
every chapter is dedicated to enhancing leadership, scholarship,
philanthropy/service and financial responsibility through
various programs and opportunities. It will be up to your
student to determine the level of involvement they want
to have in the organization and what kind of experience
it will be for them.
How
will joining a chapter now benefit my student after college?
The
life long friendships your student will make through their
chapter can last into post-college years. Greeks have national
networks for its members to use for securing jobs and advancing
careers. Membership in a chapter can be a life-long experience
that the member and the fraternity/sorority enjoy together.
Joining now is an investment in your student’s future
as they will reap the benefits now and for a lifetime. Wherever
a member ends up after college, chances are he/she will
be able to find other members of the same fraternity/sorority.
Will
my student’s academics be compromised if they join
a Greek chapter?
Students
often find managing their time difficult when moving from
the highly structured high school environment to the freedom
of college. Greek membership assists in that transition
by offering scholarship programs that may include study
partners, mandatory study hours, and time management and
study skill workshops. Your student can also access the
network of chapter members who already know how to use campus
resources like the library, study skills center, computer
labs, and academic advisors. Nothing, however, can take
the place of a disciplined and academically focused student
to ensure success in college. Thanks, in part to the chapter’s
academic goals and these programs, the NPC sorority average
GPA is above the All-Women’s GPA, and the IFC fraternity
average GPA is above the All-Men’s. We encourage you
to encourage your student to ask about this information
when making a decision to join a chapter.
Aren’t
fraternities and sororities just like the ones in the movies
and tv?
Unfortunately,
individuals without complete information often define the
image of Greek life. Since only 2% of the U.S. population
is Greek, most people don’t have first-hand experience
and stereotypes are the norm. Greek organizations do hold
social events, but most of these do not include alcohol.
These “social” events include educational programs/workshops,
community service events, intramural sports, Parent’s
Days, Homecoming, Greek Week and date events in addition
to parties and mixers. Today’s Greek communities across
the nation have adopted a stringent approach to socializing
thereby creating a safer, more beneficial environment for
its members. There are strict guidelines and procedures
concerning the availability of alcohol at chapter events,
and these rules are enforced by the inter/national organizations,
the University, and by internal chapter standards.
How
much time does a chapter take up?
The
time commitment varies from chapter to chapter, but the
first semester is most time intensive as the new member
goes through the chapter’s Education Program. The
time spent in this program will give your student the opportunity
to develop their leadership and time management skills,
learn about the history and tradition of the organization,
develop friendships with their new member class as well
as the rest of the chapter, and allow them to become involved
in other activities and organizations. After the initiation
into the chapter, expectations will vary. Each chapter has
weekly chapter meetings and other mandatory events (philanthropies,
service, initiation) throughout the year, but they are planned
well in advance. The majority of YSU Greek students attends
class full-time, work, and are active in their chapter!
The important thing to remember, is the more your student
puts in to the chapter, the more they will get out of being
a member!
Doesn’t
membership cost a lot of money?
The
perception that fraternities and sororities are only an
option for “rich” students is widespread and
false. Greek organizations are quite affordable and fees
go to services that will positively impact your child. Each
chapter is self-supported through dues charged to all members.
In the first year of membership, a few one-time expenses
are assessed. First semester costs run a little higher,
but will go down the following semester. Greek life at YSU
is one of the least expensive in the state, if not the Midwest.
Average dues for IFC and CPC fraternities and sororities
average $200-$250 a semester. Dues for NPHC organizations
have a higher first-semester cost, but reduce substantially
and vary from organization to organization. Also, chapters
have payment plans that can be arranged to reduce to ease
that responsibility.
What
about pledging or hazing?
All
new fraternity and sorority members experience a period
of orientation. During this time, your student and other
new members will participate in weekly meetings to learn
about the University, and the fraternity/sorority history,
leadership retreats, community service projects, and activities
designed to build friendships among new members and initiated
members. ALL FRATERNITY AND SORORITY POLICIES STRICTLY
FORBID HAZING. YSU also takes a zero tolerance
stance on hazing and enforces its policies rigorously. If
you believe your child is being hazed, please contact the
Greek Life Advisor, Greg Gulas immediately at (330) 941-3580
or by email at gmgulas@ysu.edu.
Who
actually is in charge of the organization, and is there
outside support?
Students
elected to officer positions manage the day-to-day operations
of the organization. These officers are assisted by members
serving on committees, so everyone is involved in and exposed
to leadership positions. Each member learns cooperation,
communication, and planning skills. Alumni act as advisers,
and some chapters have alumni advisory boards that work
with its members. Each group is governed by its inter/national
headquarters, which established their chapter’s regulations,
and offers advice and direction through professional staff
and volunteers.
What
is my role as a parent?
Take
the time to find out more about the Greek community at YSU.
Ask questions about what the organizations will offer your
child and allow them to make the best decision for themselves.
Once your child chooses to join a chapter, there will be
opportunities for Parent’s Weekend activities or visiting
chapter events. Take the time to talk to your child about
Greek life and their chapter.
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